This blog entry is the result of a trigger which happened to me after knowing the death of a person, whose smile and charisma filled bollywood films with hope and happiness. Sushat Singh Rajput is indeed a superstar to this loving fans and movie lovers. He was blessed with everything that a normal man of his age could dream of, a good physique, a successful career, an awe inspiring lifestyle, but ended his life in a piece of rope !! Maybe that piece of rope gave him peace than anything in this world. Suicides are not new to our society. We have seen many and still witnessing many more. These incidents make us think about the riches, which man has earn so far, could not make him happy. Sushat's case is a lesson which we have to learn, that every smiling faces have a wounds inside their hearts!!
Why is suicide an option to end problems? Not any man on earth have never thought of committing suicide at any point of their life. Broken relationships, unhappy jobs, loneliness, unsuccessful academics, financial crisis, defamation are problems we face everyday. But not many of us end our life, why is that? A simple answer , that we are not courageous enough to face death. Facing death needs a lot of courage as facing problems. If you're not brave enough to face life , you're not good enough to die. Death means courage. Legendaries like Bhagat Singh did not just die, their death was courageous. Lots of soldiers do not heed on their lives, because for them death means courage. Ending your life by running away from your problems is not courage. Your death is not courageous.
How can we deal with those suicidal thoughts? A lot may think that depressed ones will not have a heart to think hopefully about themselves. They pull themselves away from people and cocoons in their own shells. They keep thinking about their problems and those thoughts fuels their want to end their life. Nobody is left in this world to live alone. We socialize with the society for our existence. Our problems are not going to end the world. Those problems seems to be huge in our world but not on an outer world. We should try to break away from the 'self made cages' and explore the outer world. Being a tiny living being among billions of beings in this planet, which also seems tiny compared to the whole universe , our problems are things which have to be neglected. If you have a family, friends and meal on your table three times a day you are the happiest person in this world. Because there are lot who does not enjoy these luxuries as you. There are many out there who does not have food to eat or a friend to talk. But still , they are happy with what they have. If those people can be happy, you have every right to be happy.
Life on this beautiful planet is a greatest gift from God. No matter how you live, at the end you should be able to enjoy your life. We don't know what is in store for us , sometimes they come as suprises, which cherish us or sometimes as hurricanes, which could uproot us. Whatever comes and goes, life is like a flowing river, rocks and boulders would block it from flowing smoothly, but it still flows through green meadows and reach the sea!!
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